“Focus On What You Want.”

If you search for negativity in this world you will find plenty of it. If you search for hate, anger, violence and sadness you will find it. But the same is true on the flip side: If your only INTENTION is to search for the good you will find only the good. Whatever meaning you give your life becomes your life. It can be a failure or a lesson, heartbreak or character building.

Life is against you or making you stronger because there is no such thing as reality. We choose our own reality by the meaning we give to each moment in our lives. Make it your intention to look for the good in your life, to notice the good in others, to be grateful for what you do have, to see challenges as opportunities, to show your true character.

Remember: What you give your attention to will become your experience in life. Practice seeing the good in your life, and in others. Think the best, expect the best and always ask yourself how can this benefit my life. Leave who you were, love who you are and look forward to who you will become.

“Live Today For Tomorrow It Will All Be History.”

One day you will be gone it may be in 50 years… it may be in 50 weeks… it may be next week… maybe next day or even today. I don’t know. You don’t know. Nobody knows. And rather than live in fear of this we should embrace the FACT that this life is SHORT and UNPREDICTABLE. Knowing this we must live FULLY TODAY. It is not a recipe for recklessness rather a recipe to give your all TODAY, to give your very BEST TODAY in everything you do, to give your greatest energy to this day, to your family, to everyone you encounter TODAY. It is a reminder for you to leave your best self in each moment.

What if they couldn’t speak to you tomorrow?

What if you are gone tomorrow?

What would they speak of you?

What can you do is that will leave a lasting positive memory in the lives of everyone you come into contact with…

It is about being light-hearted. Knowing that in the end, none of this stuff matters. The only thing that ever matters is how you made others feel and how you felt in your own heart. It is about knowing that things can never go with you in the end. The spirit lives on… but the ‘things’… they die with your physical body. Remembering that we are going to die is the greatest reminder we can have in our daily lives because it keeps us focused on what’s really important and what is REAL.



“Baby Is Coming.”

To every reader on this post who’s had a struggle, who’s had some pains, who’s had some tests let me tell you something the stuff you’ve been through don’t pay it any attention because it is just a sign that the baby is coming.

You’re on the verge of birthing it doesn’t matter whether you’re 30, 40, 50, 60, 70 there’s something down inside of you that is still kicking inside of you that wants to get out and it wants to live. There’s something in you

that needs to be fed,

that needs to be stirred,

that needs to be electrified,

that needs to be illuminated,

there’s something down inside of you crying let me out.

“Everything You Need Is Already Inside You.”

The happiest people don’t have the best of everything… They make the best of everything!

 The happiest people don’t have the greatest financial wealth. They always have the greatest spiritual wealth!

The happiest people don’t always live in the best suburbs. They always live in the best states!


Happiness is a mindset. Happiness is something WE ALL CAN HAVE because real happiness is never found outside of us. It is not found in possessions or wealth. Happiness is always and only found within us.

They say that happiness is the highest level of success. They couldn’t be more true because everything we do is because we want happiness. The chasing of the financial wealth is only because we think we would be happier and more people love us if we have the significance of being wealthy. The chasing of the relationships is only because we think we would be happier if we had the ideal partner. Sure, there is nothing wrong with these things but nothing can compare to genuine happiness, nothing can compare to the inner peace you feel when you need nothing.


The irony is when you get to the place where you need nothing externally. You attract those great things into your life. The magic is when you are happy, you attract more happiness. Everything doesn’t fall into place and then you become happy. You find happiness and peace first, then everything falls into place.

You can never control the events of life, but you can always control your response to them. You can always control your emotions. You can always control the meaning you give to the situation. Be the good you wish to see in your own life. Let it flow out of you first and then it will flow back to you. Never forget your greatest measure of success will always be the level of happiness you feel consistently. Not money, not cars, not things, Happiness.


How happy are you on a consistent basis? Happiness will come, like anything else. It will come if you practice it. One small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day. Start your day off with positivity! Fill your day with positivity. Spend time in gratitude. Make an effort to lift others up. Be kind for no reason. Nothing makes you happier than lifting others up. Happiness comes when you have a positive expectation for your future. You have let go of your past and your intention is to live fully in this powerful present moment. To make the most of this day!

Always remember this: Nothing is worth it if it does not make you happy.


One day you will be gone. Nothing you are stressing over will matter in the end.Be free from fear, worry and doubt. The only thing that matters is your inner peace, your inner happiness, SO SMILE BIG! DREAM BIG! Get grateful for the magic in your life and not only expect more to come but when challenges come up, expect to handle them with courage, strength and a powerful SMILE!

“Don’t take Anything in Your Life for granted.”

Don’t take a single moment of your life for granted. At this very moment, someone is taking their last breath and would give anything for a few more moments on this earth. You have so many blessings… think about them, right now…


FEEL how blessed you are.

ACKNOWLEDGE how blessed you are.


TRUST that everything will work out for you maybe not exactly as you planned, but perfectly for the evolution of your soul. TRUST that whatever you have been asking for is on its way. It will come at the perfect time when you are ready to receive it. Stress will not bring it in any faster. Anxious feelings will not bring it in any faster. Positivity and making a DECISION to feel good, regardless of whether it is here or not that will make everything better. JUST DECIDE to FEEL as though you already have it, FEEL how would you feel if you needed nothing else on earth. That’s what we are all seeking. The feeling, that we have it all. And we do. It’s all inside and that is the true success.

Needing nothing, yet having everything.


“Something Good comes out of Something Bad.”

When things are going bad there’s gonna be some good that’s gonna come from it.

Oh mission got cancelled?

Good. We can focus on another one.

Didn’t get promoted?

Good. More time to get better.

Didn’t get funded?

Good. We own more of the company.

Didn’t get the job you wanted?

Good. You can get more experience and build a better resume.

Got beat?

Good. You learned.

Unexpected problems?

Good. We have the opportunity to figure out the solution.

When things are going bad don’t get all bummed out, don’t get startled, don’t get frustrated. No, you just look at the issue and you say “GOOD”, you still got some fight in you. So get up, dust off, reload, re-calibrate, re-engage and go out on the attack.



You shouldn’t accept that you are what you are, that is what you doomed to be. NO. You shouldn’t accept that. You have to fight. You have to struggle and you have to scrap. You have to kick and claw at those weaknesses to change them, to stop them.

Some days you win. Some days you don’t. But each and every day you get back up and you move forward with your fists clenched toward the battle, toward the struggle and you fight with everything you’ve got to overcome those weaknesses and those shortfalls and those flaws. As you strive to be just a little bit better today than you were yesterday.


There is no longer any room for excuses. Excuses are the tools of incompetent used to build bridges to nowhere and monuments of nothingness. Well we’ve got no time for excuses. Nobody is going to give you anything that you have not earned. Nobody cares how tough your upbringing was. Nobody cares if you suffered some discrimination.

You have to remember that whatever you’ve gone through it pales in comparison to the hardships previous generations endured and they overcame them and if they overcame them you can overcome them too.


You don’t know what you’ve got until all hell breaks loose. You don’t know what you can take until the pressure is applied to your life. You don’t know what you can endure until you’ve been under fire and under struggle and under tribulation you can’t learn what’s in you sitting back in a lazy boy chair hitting the remote control watching HBO and Cinemax but when all hell breaks loose that’s when you get to see what you got.

 You can tell by the burdens you bear and the load you carry and the stuff you endure. It’s not just that shock your enemies, you shock yourself they said you were gonna die but through hell and high water you are still here.

“No More Blame Game.”

The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It’s not even holding on to any anger at all. It’s moving on with your life. It’s showing them life is so much better after they’re gone.

It’s easy to blame those that have wronged us but for just about everything, that is wrong, with our life. If it wasn’t for them, I would be happy. If it wasn’t for them, I would have more money. If they didn’t do this, I would be where I want to be.



Most people get so caught up in blaming; they continue to blame and sabotage their own life long after the person is gone from their life. Most people hold on to the blame because it’s easier than moving on. Having an excuse or a story of why they aren’t where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort. And it is much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However it is not and will never be a happy place to stay.


Those who take responsibility for their life and  want to move and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom, success and happiness. Now this does not mean there aren’t horrible people in the world that have done wrong by others. It is not condoning other’s behavior. It is taking back the power they have from you, when you are the one suffering long after they are gone.

  • Who wins if you move on, forget about them and create the best life and success you could ever imagine?
  • Who wins if you move on? Who wins if you forget about them?
  • Who wins if you create your best ever life, full of success and abundance?


                           YOU WIN!

Take back your power. Blame them for what they have done, but don’t blame them for what you haven’t done. Blame them for what they have done, but bless them for making you stronger, for making you better. Blame them for what they have done, but thank them for showing you exactly what you don’t want. You can blame the world for bringing them into your life, but then grateful for all the lessons it taught you, all the strength it gave you, all the perspective it gave you.

Know in your heart if they knew better they would do better. Know in your heart you don’t need to take on any of their negative energy. How good does it feel to take that baggage of your shoulders? To focus on building your future. What a blessing! Let go. MOVE Forward. Never look back.

The best revenge is not taking any revenge. It is simply moving on with your life, creating the best version of yourself.